Do your fantasies match your sex life? 177 replies, 57279 views

InTheButtLikeWhat
2/11/2013 2:40:00 PM
I've noticed that some of the porn I watch and things that I fantasize about are not actually things I want to do in real life. And conversely, some things I enjoy with a partner bore the shit out of me when masturbating. Example- I get off big time to giving oral (to men and women) but yawn when watching it in porn, especially if it's a dude receiving. And sometimes I'll get turned on watching like a 10 dude interracial gangbang but I have no desire to actually engage in that.
Higgs boson
2/11/2013 2:46:00 PM
When acting out fantasies in the past I found them quite boring because it was less spontaneous. I am more of a "random fuck in the kitchen while trying to make dinner" kind of girl. Acting things out took too much time and effort was focused on the fantasy and less on the actual sex act.

My sex life has been dead for the past 9 months though so I am wondering if this will change.
deadlift
2/11/2013 2:48:00 PM
not even close.
chocolate juice
2/11/2013 3:02:00 PM
My woman is down for anything except another woman joining in. I would love to have a threesome but I know that would go over like a lead balloon. Otherwise, she keeps me happy and is very giving so I can't complain.
John Barlow
2/11/2013 3:03:00 PM
I would say that I generally fantasize about irresponsible and damaging scenarios; so I'm kind of glad my fantasy life and sex life don't necessarily play cricket in every situation. However, I have let the proverbial pot boil over on several occasions and I guess I can say I don't have any regrets.
tony plush
2/11/2013 3:04:00 PM
women tend to get off more on the novelty of sex or sexual situations, so i think it would make sense for men and women to fantasize and/or act on those fantasies differently. ive known plenty of girls who get off almost exclusively to crazy group sex scenes but would never actually consider bringing someone else into the bedroom.

as for myself, most things i fantasize about i have tried or would try. when im with someone im pretty open with what i want to do, and more often than not my partners have been game.
emofacial
2/11/2013 3:28:00 PM
sometimes
InTheButtLikeWhat
2/11/2013 3:29:00 PM
There are things I'd like to try that seem like too much work. I think like what Nicole was saying. I'd be interested in pegging a dude or doing a bunch of bondage bdsm junk but I don't have the "gear". And group sex is surprisingly difficult to arrange from a logistical standpoint. In my experience with threesomes, they're rarely as good as you think they'll be. I always end up being the common denominator, where in my fantasy I'd like for all people to be equally into everyone else.
John Barlow
2/11/2013 3:40:00 PM
I think bondage is best executed with materials that can be found in affordable outlets like a hardware store. No one needs that crazy leather and whip shit. My cock gets a lot harder whipping someone with a length of CPVC while their forearms and thighs are bound together with duct tape.
Davey.
2/11/2013 3:41:00 PM
I just like it when she touches my penis.
John Barlow
2/11/2013 3:42:00 PM
Originally posted by: Davey.

I just like it when she touches my penis.

I can't stand that. Worst part.
deadlift
2/11/2013 3:43:00 PM
prefer the calloused hands of a brute on my member
GordDaBoy
2/11/2013 3:44:00 PM
I jerk off to black and asian girls and my gf is white, WELP THERES A CONUNDRUM.
tony plush
2/11/2013 3:45:00 PM
Originally posted by: deadlift

not even close.

wait, so deadlift has never been pegged by a tranny? i dont know what to believe anymore.
deadlift
2/11/2013 3:46:00 PM
fuck this straight earth
tony plush
2/11/2013 3:47:00 PM


DennisQ
2/11/2013 3:47:00 PM
I'm into group sex and threesomes but am far too insecure and sexually inept to ever be part of either.
John Barlow
2/11/2013 3:57:00 PM
Originally posted by: DennisQ

I'm into group sex and threesomes but am far too insecure and sexually inept to ever be part of either.

No, you're not. Listen to your cock. Start today.
InTheButtLikeWhat
2/11/2013 3:58:00 PM

the cat
2/11/2013 4:01:00 PM
Originally posted by: John Barlow
Listen to your cock. Start today.

tony plush
2/11/2013 4:11:00 PM
ass nipples told he likes to be whipped with the rods during intercourse
chocolate juice
2/11/2013 4:12:00 PM
John Barlow
2/11/2013 4:14:00 PM
Punch people in the face while you have sex.
tony plush
2/11/2013 4:15:00 PM
i prefer slapping randoms during sex as opposed to long-time girlfriends. with prior consent of course.
WREN
2/11/2013 4:17:00 PM
My real sex life and fantasy sex life differ in a few ways but I think that's a good thing. While I'd like to try out some of the stuff I stroke it to, it might ruin the whole fantasy aspect of it. Sometimes the unknown is more of a turn on.
InTheButtLikeWhat
2/11/2013 4:19:00 PM
Originally posted by: deadlift

not even close.


Elaborate.