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March 10 2011 11:48 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
serious question here

Listening to a talk radio program that i enjoy, the subject has come up multiple times of women breast feeding in public and what the different people's reactions are to the act. Scenarios include such things as at a nice eating place, on the subway, etc. Not just like at the mall or whatever, but real situations where women will feel no qualm about nursing right in public, with people right there with you. I personally fall into the percentage who think that it should be a matter you excuse yourself for. Unlike some people, i don't view it as sexual (because of the exposed and lovely breast) or really gross, but just something that if i were doing, i'd excuse myself just to be more appropriate. Maybe that's me though, i tend to be very conservative.

I figured i'd bring this to the bitch batch and all PAHC ladies for discussion, i can kind of see where this will go, but find it interesting to ponder from a woman's perspective since i've already heard what a group of men think.
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March 11 2011 12:01 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
It doesn't really bother me if others do it, but I will probably excuse myself. I wouldn't want some creep starring at me.
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March 11 2011 12:03 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
There have only been certain circumstances where I have felt uncomfortable breastfeeding. I will do it just about anywhere, but prefer a cover or blanket. The only time I don't cover up is if it's just me and family, or me and close girlfriends. I think it's so shitty to think that a woman should excuse herself though, in some places... If you are at a restaurant, should she go sit on a toilet with the baby?
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March 11 2011 12:05 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
a mother should be able to feed her child whenever and wherever she needs to and people who are uncomfortable should deal with it.

i'd much rather a woman breast feed her kid in public than have to listen to it cry.
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March 11 2011 12:05 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Posting in a thread about breasts with a Tristan reply
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March 11 2011 12:06 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: InTheButtLikeWhat

a mother should be able to feed her child whenever and wherever she needs to and people who are uncomfortable should deal with it.



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March 11 2011 12:10 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: Kermit Butts

Posting in a thread about breasts with a Tristan reply




Hah! I hardly post really, and if you look at the random threads I have posted in over the last several months... So predictable.
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March 11 2011 12:11 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: InTheButtLikeWhat

a mother should be able to feed her child whenever and wherever she needs to and people who are uncomfortable should deal with it.



sounds like you'd be one to shit with the door open
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March 11 2011 12:14 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
I love when people, especially other parents, categorize breastfeeding as something inappropriate... particularly for their kid/s to see.

It's so completely natural, and although maybe not 'beautiful' to some, still something that should never be looked upon as out of the norm. The image that society has helped create for breastfeeding is shameful and ugly. I'd also like to point out, that while an infant is properly positioned, you don't get anything but side boob. I've flashed more than that while inebriated.
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March 11 2011 12:16 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: a national acrobat

shit with the door open




This is a whole other topic man... Pooping is MY TIME. Leave me the eff alone. I will not ever shit in front of anyone unless I'm literally just about to crap myself anyway.
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March 11 2011 12:26 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: a national acrobat

Originally posted by: InTheButtLikeWhat

a mother should be able to feed her child whenever and wherever she needs to and people who are uncomfortable should deal with it.



sounds like you'd be one to shit with the door open


haha wut?
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March 11 2011 12:27 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
completely natural yes, but in a hypersensitive society built to be comfortable with being completely unnatural you have to expect that people might be skeeved by the sight of breast feeding. someone as good looking as tristian breast feeding at the mall discreetly would piss off the same people who would freak out over beat up Janet Jackson's weird nip slip at the super bowl. keep in mind people freaked out and were trying to sue saying their children's lives were ruined, etc.

if i were a mom, would i go to the bathroom? i wouldn't go out to the car that's for sure. But i would also probably not be going to a 5 star joint with a baby. As for the mall or somewhere similar i would look for somewhere private. Not for any reason other than it's a private moment, gawking and whatnot is to be expected and should be kept to a minimum.
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March 11 2011 12:28 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: InTheButtLikeWhat

Originally posted by: a national acrobat

Originally posted by: InTheButtLikeWhat

a mother should be able to feed her child whenever and wherever she needs to and people who are uncomfortable should deal with it.



sounds like you'd be one to shit with the door open


haha wut?




your mentality is so "fuck you, deal with me doing what i want to do whenever i want" why wouldnt you shit with the door open for everyone to take a whiff
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March 11 2011 12:29 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
ill check out of this thread. just trying to bring some good topics to the site
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March 11 2011 12:30 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
I think the attitude is "why should I give a fuck about hypersensitive crybaby dickholes" and I back it.
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March 11 2011 1:46 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
chicks should be whippin em out beyond the need to jam it into some ingrate's mouth.
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