I think some of your broads may be crazy or just dating the wrong fucking dudes. I'm a bra burner but having one leg up on your mate doesn't mean you've accomplished anything. "I'm alpha woman but I want a man to put me in my place but he needs to understand that I'm strong and independent."
WTF ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT???
Jess, I could be wrong but you seem like the kind of chick that would hold it over your man's head if you made more money than him. I don't mean to put you down and again, I could be wrong but that shit can ruin a relationship and you'll end up kicking yourself right in the asshole.
I'd love to make more money than Wren just to be like "here, let me finally be able to help you the way you helped me over the years." I'm sure anal would be sufficient for him but I don't like that very much.