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i am skimble
something
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October 7 2009 9:18 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
well... what's that thing people say? you're allowed to spend half the length of the relationship getting over it? sooo... you've got 4 months left to be a whiny bitch, annoy all your friends about how no girl will ever be like her, check your other AIM account to see if she's really never on or if she's blocking you, fall asleep holding something that reminds you of her, and deliberately sabotage any chance of a relationship with anyone else.

I know grovelling over an ex is fun and all, but by February you have to find some new way of hating yourself... otherwise... uhh... the Krampus will gnaw your dick off while you're sleeping.

Jess.
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October 7 2009 9:25 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
I thought it was only a week of mourning for every month you were together? Either way, that's a bitch rule.
Bonsai
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October 7 2009 9:47 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
I've never really understood how most people are able to get over someone they claimed to have been in love with so quickly/easily. The "getting under someone new" method does me no good at all. And it really doesn't matter how many dates I go on or how busy I make myself... on the rare occasion that I fall for someone, I'm fucked for a good long while.

I never turn into a whiny moron, and as far as anyone who knows me can tell, I'm over it and have moved on. But since I'm a faggot, it'll probably be years before a day goes by that I don't miss the dude.
DennisQ
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October 7 2009 4:51 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Man did I come off like a "whiny bitch" and a "faggot"? Jeeze.
ass nipples
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October 7 2009 4:54 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: dfv

Originally posted by: tom.




THIS PITCURE



Originally posted by: cbrickhouse

here's what i think happened in that picture. the cops arrested his mom for smokin/selling crack since he's obviously mentally deficient, brought him back to the station to wait for youth and family services to pick him up, and he started entertaining the cops and somewhere along the line pissed himself because he's retarded and can't hold it for longer than an hour



he's 37
Corey
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October 7 2009 10:49 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: tom.

smoke weed everyday.



-Jeremy-
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October 8 2009 2:51 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by:Jess.

If I hung on to someone for even a month after I dated them, I'd probably punch myself in the face.


If you were in a relationship for 3 1/2 years, you'd be completely over them within the timespan of one month? That's pretty fucked up actually.
Davey.
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October 8 2009 2:53 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
absolutely.
i was a complete faggot for almost a year after my last relationship went tits-up.
lol.
Jess.
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October 8 2009 2:57 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: -Jeremy-

Originally posted by:Jess.

If I hung on to someone for even a month after I dated them, I'd probably punch myself in the face.


If you were in a relationship for 3 1/2 years, you'd be completely over them within the timespan of one month? That's pretty fucked up actually.



I was in one, and was. Of course, I did the breaking up, so maybe that had an effect (affect?) on it.

Honestly, I am a generally really happy person and my life rules (great friends, family, job, etc), so I really have no reason to sit around being depressed over someone that is no longer in my life.
Davey.
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October 8 2009 2:58 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
effect. you were right first time.
BRYANA
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October 8 2009 3:00 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: Bonsai

I've never really understood how most people are able to get over someone they claimed to have been in love with so quickly/easily. The "getting under someone new" method does me no good at all. And it really doesn't matter how many dates I go on or how busy I make myself... on the rare occasion that I fall for someone, I'm fucked for a good long while.



this.
-Jeremy-
gary
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October 8 2009 3:07 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: Jess.

Originally posted by: -Jeremy-

Originally posted by:Jess.

If I hung on to someone for even a month after I dated them, I'd probably punch myself in the face.


If you were in a relationship for 3 1/2 years, you'd be completely over them within the timespan of one month? That's pretty fucked up actually.



I was in one, and was. Of course, I did the breaking up, so maybe that had an effect (affect?) on it.

Honestly, I am a generally really happy person and my life rules (great friends, family, job, etc), so I really have no reason to sit around being depressed over someone that is no longer in my life.


I'm not thinking in terms of moping around and being depressed for a year. By getting over someone, I mean to detach yourself completely, from an emotional standpoint, from a person that consumed over three years of your life.
Jess.
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October 8 2009 3:09 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Well, I guess in my case, I am one of those "drag it out as long as possible because you don't have the guts to end it earlier" type of people, so by the time I break up with someone, I am generally pretty much completely over them already. Then all I need to get over is the initial shock of being "alone".
-Jeremy-
gary
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October 8 2009 3:11 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
I guess I could see that then, especially if you end up being the breaker upper. That by the time you actually do break up, it's more of a good riddance thing than breaking your heart, lol. I did that with a girl, but had no real connection to her to begin with, so it's kind of null and void.
Mariano Rivera
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October 8 2009 3:12 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
trying to get over some one by getting under some one else is the worst god damn idea since chocolate covered foreskins
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