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April 14 2008 11:25 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
thank you jeremy. that's definitely reassuring to hear that it's possible her motives aren't entirely nefarious.
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April 14 2008 11:28 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
and yeah, it is only our second date, and we've only been "seeing each other" for about 3 weeks. that's kinda why i think there could be potential if i show her that i'm not JUST trying to fuck her.

i tried to make that clear to her too. i told her that if i was just trying to penetrate, i probably would have given up a while ago.
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April 14 2008 11:30 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Plus, any chick that does fuck on the first date usually isn't worth dating anyway.
Brett Weir
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April 14 2008 11:52 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: Sloth Fratelli

Originally posted by:-Jeremy-

Originally posted by: tommynorcal

so basically shes going to keep leading you on until youre completely broken because it doesnt seem like shes going to sleep with you and in a relationship, people sleep with each other.

i hope that friend thing is an excuse to hold out longer.


So if she hasn't fucked him on their first few dates, then a valid relationship isn't possible? wow, okay

If you like her, I'd give it a bit more time. May as well give it a decent shot. Just because you're not fucking immediately doesn't mean there isn't a chance for it to develop into a relationship. If anything, I applaud her for it. Also, I don't blame her for being a bit turned off by you fucking one of her friends, even if it was two years ago. I don't think there's a grace period for that sort of thing, haha.



From the sounds of things, it's not that she's holding out on sex because she's that kind of girl; but because she doesn't want to fuck him at all because he railed her friend. I think right now she's just eating up the attention and affection, and the only reason she's still willing to make out and shit is because it's not really giving much of herself. I'd say this goes nowhere. Your best bet is to just stop making out and keep the friendship, or ride this thing into the ground with your tongue down her throat and hand up her shirt.



exactly. and dont get me wrong at all. i saw jeremys p.o.v. on the situation long before writing what i wrote. thing is, speaking from experience and more realistic points of view, the scenario i described seems to be the scenario that rings most true.

but shit, if youre willing to give it that hope, fuck it. you know this girls intentions better than this message board.
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April 14 2008 11:58 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: -Jeremy-

Originally posted by: tommynorcal

so basically shes going to keep leading you on until youre completely broken because it doesnt seem like shes going to sleep with you and in a relationship, people sleep with each other.

i hope that friend thing is an excuse to hold out longer.


So if she hasn't fucked him on their first few dates, then a valid relationship isn't possible? wow, okay

If you like her, I'd give it a bit more time. May as well give it a decent shot. Just because you're not fucking immediately doesn't mean there isn't a chance for it to develop into a relationship. If anything, I applaud her for it. Also, I don't blame her for being a bit turned off by you fucking one of her friends, even if it was two years ago. I don't think there's a grace period for that sort of thing, haha.



on top of the above, you twisted my words around. in a relationship, AKA relationship DOWN THE ROAD, two people sleep with each other. i wasnt talking about the lack of booty on this particular date being the nail. its the fact that she is skeeved out, and if shes as skeeved as described, she will probably not want to be in a position to sleep with him ever. that has a lot of potential to pose a huge problem. or who knows, the whole problem with it may fade out. waiting to sleep with each other is one thing, but its another when the other person pulls your past out and uses that as an excuse to not want to be physical like that. i also know a lot of girls who admittedly will keep a guy around for comfort and attention and other shit but will eventually lead them on and kick em to the curb.
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April 15 2008 12:11 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
what an emotional lollercoaster this thread is.
Brett Weir
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April 15 2008 12:26 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
haha this thread is a hope destroyer.

ignore this message board and install life.

-Jeremy-
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April 15 2008 1:03 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: Nice gut, beerslut!

emotional lollercoaster





Originally posted by: tommynorcal

ignore this message board and install life.


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April 15 2008 2:23 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: -Jeremy-

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April 30 2008 9:46 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
and with that, it's over. got the whole "i'm sensing you want more from this relationship than i can give..."

ah at least i have some closure now. sorta.
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April 30 2008 9:54 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
did i mention killing her yet?
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April 30 2008 9:55 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
i like where your head is at. fuck life.
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April 30 2008 10:03 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
being alone is bet-terrr.
Brett Weir
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April 30 2008 10:55 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
i live skeptically. it doesnt make things NOT a total bummer when shit gets ridiculous but at least it gives me a chance to prepare myself.

kind of discouraging to go for anything great, isnt it? i recommend it for now though. sorry shit didnt pan out the way it should have dude. she seems like she needs to grow up.

install constant whacking and reclusing from females.
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April 30 2008 11:37 PM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: tommynorcal

install constant whacking and reclusing from females.


that sounds a lot like using linux
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