Exactly. Which is why assholes have it easier. Its almost easier for the guy too if you are an asshole, and that kind of guy is the type of dude that most girls seem to want. Many of the girls I have been with thought I was an asshole, because I can present like that sometimes, I am pretty confident, and I tell people whats up. But I am nice to the girl I am with, until she thinks I am an asshole for asserting myself where I was once mostly defferential, because I decided I want to do xy or z. It makes no sense.